There are, if not all, some enlightening lessons one can learn from nature. If when in doubt, I turn to nature to gain a glimpse of perspective about myself and the world I live in. I went up to Grand Marais over the weekend with Cindy, Sy and Will. We stayed at Croftville Road Cottages, which are a couple miles North of Grand Marais. We rented one of their 800 sq ft cottages for a fair price and, resolutely, good deal considering the hospitality, view and company.
I had two goals for myself: the first was to visit the Devil's Kettle in Judge CR Magney State Park; and secondly, to catch the sunrise on Lake Superior because our cottages were, after all, on the lake. I accomplished both tasks.
We arrived at our cottage shortly after five on Friday evening. We unloaded Cindy's trusty corolla, and amazed at the quality of the cottage, lake view and bonfire pit. Our first adventure was downtown Grand Marais. Downtown Grand Marais is everything a small town in Minnesota ought to be with friendly locals, quaint shops and generations of Ford pickups parked sparsely throughout the quiet streets. We visited the Municipal Liquor Store, unloaded the goodies at the car, and walked a windy block to Sven and Ole's pizzeria. The restaurant lived up to its name; we were supremely satisfied with our Havvian Vun, sodas and front seat view of the television so the guys could watch the NFL draft while Cindy and I talked much about nothing important. It was one of those weekend getaways; we all wanted to leave behind the heavy worries of our city lives, and enjoy the lighter side of life. All serious talk ended in friendly agreement, and all silliness was welcome to the party.
We finished off the night with a bonfire, drinks and insightful conversations on gender roles, sexuality and dating. We all agreed and toasted to dating outside of our norm which each person would define for him/herself. We also debated the need and value of gender roles, which we agreed that each family has their own culture, but each generation changes a little too. We talked about whether we were homophobic, and agreed that we all were not but we choose to not debate on the issues. (I think its fair to admit that at some point almost all heterosexual individuals honestly asks oneself if he/she is comfortable with homosexuals and homosexuality.) Cindy put it best when she said "Love is the same regardless of sex, gender or race; everyone wants to be loved." We toasted yet again to Love, and put out our bonfire.
I woke up at 6:17 am Saturday morning to catch the sunrise over Lake Superior. The sun rose over the lake like an empress upon her thrown, and by 6:41, the clouds rolled in to veil it's soft glow. Around 6:47 a few rain drops fell down, and I retreated into the cottage and under my blanket for more sleep.
I realized the obvious realization that morning: Each day the world intends to bring us light and hope, but if we do not rise early to the occasion we only see the clouds that have moved in the way, and we become fearful and hopeless of accomplishing anything. For the rest of the day, I did not find myself worrying too much about anything.
We had banana nut cheerios and left over pizza for breakfast. I packed four sandwiches and a few apples, and Cindy loaded us up on water for our adventures. We left our cottage at 11am in search of the Witch Tree and the Devil's Kettle. Highway 61 was our main route, and it would take us straight to Grand Portage where we might see the Witch tree. (.... to be continued when I am not so sleepy...)